Why do we feel the difference between ourselves and a successful person?

Hello everyone. We all know about many successful people in our life whom we like and thinks about how he/she did that? We think that how they are so intelligent to get where they are and to achieve what they have in their life.

Many times we say that their life is very easy and something like what we can dream about in our life and that's the reality too.

But how they achieve so much in their life? Is there any difference between us and these Successful people in this world? Can we also do what they have done or we can't? These are some questions in mind of most of us.

Why we feel a difference in ourselves and successful person

This is the reality that there is some difference between us and the people who are successful and that's the reason that they achieved so much in their life and that's the reason that they are so successful.
But is that difference is about the capability of us and Successful one or others?

The reason we feel the difference between us and successful people is because of their learning and efforts they have put in their life and most of us don't know about their struggles and only came to know about these people when they have done something extraordinary in their life.

We came to know about them when they are Successful and have learned a lot in their life and are becoming more and more perfect in their work.

And when you compare yourself with this person who is very professionals in their work and have a lot more knowledge about their work than definitely there will be a huge difference between you and them because your learning and hard work is way less than what these successful persons have put in their life.

It's similar to when a person who has just started to exercise compares himself with a fit person who is continuously working on his body from many years and there will be a definitely huge difference between both these persons.

What we see about successful people is the life they are living and the respect they are getting but very few of us knows about their hard work and life before becoming successful and that's what the biggest mistake we do because we are not focusing on things from which we can learn.

Many times we get demotivated in life when we want to do something special but believe that we can't because we think that the person who has done it are exceptions and we can't do that.

But the reality is that when we look at the life of a person before becoming Successful we get to know that they are also similar to us and when we see their hard work and struggles to reach that point we start to relate the similarities between us and the Successful ones.

If we focus on only the position of a person and not how he reached there we will never be even able to think about getting to the position at which that person is and where we dream to go about.

There are a lot of problems, struggles, continuous hard work and passion to do something that makes a person successful and the good news is that we all are capable of doing that but the sad news is very few of us realises that.

No one has got success as a gift in their life (except some exceptions) but what everyone hangar is a body and a brain and the one who utilises it in the best way will grow more in life.

Can you become successful in life and how?
I think you got the answer to this already. Definitely, you can be successful in life and believe me you will get much more than what you expected if you focus on process and learning to make yourself better continuously.

And if you focus more on the outcome than the process, efforts and learning than it will be much more difficult for you to achieve something in life because you will get outcome only when you have given some good input( efforts).

Everyone in this world is same and equally capable which most of us deny but who accepts it is the one who has more chances to be successful because he believes and when someone believes the chances of getting something are very high.

Every successful person was also similar to us a stage but their decision making and learning makes them different from others after some time.

It's similar to a person focusing on learning and entertainment both and others on just entertainment than who have more chances to succeed? The answer will surely be the first person because he has more learning.

Was there any difference between them or just the way they utilised their time. It's our illusion that we can't do anything or that any other person is different from us.

Conclusion:
The purpose of this blog was to let you know about your ability and can you achieve something in life like others or is there any difference between you and them that will stop you from becoming successful In life.

The life of a person who is successful was not that easy that we think and they might have faced the Problems that we can't even imagine in our life but their brave and honest efforts and fighting spirit in these tough times have to lead them to a life which everyone dreams about.

If you want to learn from successful people than look at their life before they became successful and what they did at that time. You can't jump in your life from a position of zero to hero and you need to give continuous efforts and enjoy at the same time to achieve something in life.

Life is easy and we can do everything in our life if we think that way but with wrong thinking and decisions, we can make our life very difficult also. So, live life according to situations and don't try to jump high directly instead try continuously and be happy and proud of yourself for your efforts.

And never forget that every person in their life is where he deserves. It means every successful person have worked for where they are and you will also be there if you work hard.

Always try to be happy and live the only life you have got in the best possible way that you can and spread love and happiness and respect everyone.

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