Real and Inspiring Story of a failure?

Hello everyone. Let's start with the story. There was a boy named Chris. Chris was a very naive and disciplined boy. He always has a dream to do something good for others by helping the ones in need when he will become successful in his life because he used to feel very hurt and sad whenever he sees someone sad and unhappy in their life.

He always thought that how someone can be so sad in life and how someone can
Suffer from so much pain and struggles in the one life he/she has got. He always has respect and love for every human being and gets very happy whenever he sees someone smiling and happy in their life.

But his family ambience (environment) was not as good and positive as it should have been because of the poor relationship between his mother and father and there used to be regular fights between his father and mother which created a lot of negativity in his house.

But after some time, he got used to it. His mother and father love him but didn't express that much and after some time, he completed his graduation. He was a good student in studies.

But he was a very unconfident boy and don't know about what he will do in his life/career because of lack of clarity. And even after trying to think that what he will do in future he couldn't find what he will do.

The reason for that was his lack of communication with others as he was a very introvert person and his lack of confidence and also his willingness to do something.

He used to talk freely with whom he was comfortable with and was very reluctant to talk with someone he didn't know. He always used to think that everyone else is better than him and he is not good enough to do anything in his life. He was very negative about himself in his mind.

The reason for his negativity could be his family environment or the way he has seen people living their life and even the way he thinks and his lack of Confidence.

Slowly he started to get much more negative from inside and thought that he was not worthy for even doing any job. The biggest problem with him was that he was very reluctant to speak or express his views with anyone.

His relationship with his parents wasn't good either as he created a distance with his parents and didn't discuss anything with them because they scolded him some time. But in reality, his parents loved him very much as most of the parents do to their children.

The negativity inside him was that much that he didn't think himself worthy for anything and that's why he sat Idol at his house without doing anything and the fear of being not worthy increased in his mind and even after wanting to do something, he never took a step because of being under control of poor and negative thinking.

And what happened after that was that he suffered from depression because of the guilt he has inside him that he is not doing anything and is becoming a burden on his parents. And that's why he used to curse himself the whole day but the negativity in his mind was that strong that he didn't take any step forward.

Because of his lack of self belief and the lack of self belief he is losing hope in his life and making his life a lot more harder. He would have achieved something really good if at least he tried something because he was capable but the worst thing is that he didn't believed in himself.

And to think the life of a person who wants to help others is so bad is very disheartening and disappointing. He is still alive and let's see what he does in his life now because it will decide his happiness and future.

The biggest problem with most of us is that we try to judge everything very quickly, whether it's our capability or that life is very difficult and in reality, it's not the truth.

One of the best things that I have heard is that “Hard work beats talent, when talent doesn't work hard". This means you don't need to be talented to be successful in life but you need to be crazy about what you wants.

Life is very beautiful if we believe that. There is nothing that can control you if you understand the reality of life and if you live fearlessly because you have got only one life and if even in that one life you are sacrificing your happiness than its the biggest mistake.

Life is not about how much you achieved but life is all about how wonderfully you are living your life because no one of us will take anything with us during our death.

Success is very important but the way to be successful is to be fearless and do what you want in your life without being afraid of doing anything good. Learn continuously and try continuously and there will be no one like you and you will achieve everything including happiness.

Conclusion: Lessons from this inspirational story

1) Self-belief and confidence are the most part of your life. A talented person without self-belief will be unsuccessful but a less talented person with enough self-belief will achieve a lot in his life. Fear and lack of self-belief make the life of an individual a hell.

2) Life is not hard or easy, it's your mentality and way of thinking that makes the life of an individual good or bad. If you have made Yourself strong that nothing can stop you.

3) Live in a positive environment and among good people because that has a direct impact on what you think and if you are having negative people around you than ignore them or try to make them positive.

4) Take action about what you want without thinking too much and live fearlessly so that you can live happily. Fear is the biggest illusion in this world that makes a happy person be very sad by limiting his thinking.

5) Your life is your responsibility. So, don't think negative and take full responsibility for your actions without depending on anyone else. If you made a mistake than try to solve that by accepting it and move forward.

6) Don't be afraid of failures because your purpose is not to win but to live a happy life. Try again and again even after failing because there is no other option to success.

7) Not only think but do it and work for what you want. There is no barrier in life such as failure or fear if you think positive. You need to take action to achieve something in life.

8) Learning is the best way to make yourself a better and capable person and it will also help you to stay away from negativity.

9) You can't help others if you can't help yourself. You should try to make yourself strong enough and capable enough to control your life situations.

How he can become successful


The above points are the ways in which he can become successful in life. He should stop thinking about the past because it can't be changed and the past is gone. He should trust himself because he will not then who will and think about the future.

He should learn and make himself stronger by giving a better and meaningful purpose to his life. He should live in reality and should be fearless to live a happier life.

Always try to find solutions to any Problem and don't be controlled by the Problems or situations in your life because there are many individuals in this world who thinks good about others but couldn't do anything good with themselves.

So, be strong and fearless and love the only life you have got in the best possible way.
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