How to be focused and motivated towards your goals in life?
Hello everyone. We all want to achieve something big in our lives and to become successful you need to keep your focus and motivation towards your goal so that you can achieve these and convert those dreams and goals into reality.
But the problem is that we all want to do something in our life but we are not able to keep our focus and the same motivation towards our goal after some time but it's very important to do something in our life to live a happy life.
So, how we can keep our focus and motivation towards the goal that we want to achieve? The best and reality-based(not theoretical but practical) way to be focused on our goal in life is:
Everyone in this world is doing something in their life because it is related to a purpose. For example- A person is doing a job to earn money and fulfil his family needs and without a job he can't, A person is doing social services to help the society.
You want to become successful because someone insulted you or you have suffered in your life and wants to make life better. You need one good purpose and the burning desire to do something in your life.
You should have a desire and purpose for which you can do everything in your life and should keep remembering it to yourself that you have to go there in your life.
A person without a purpose and desire can't do anything in his/her life. For example- If someone says you have to work for him for free then will you do that particular thing? No, will be the answer because you don't know why you have to do that work and what you will get by doing that particular thing and that's why there will be no focus and motivation for you to do that work.
You should try to find a strong purpose for what you are doing. For example- Education will help you to learn something new and important and will help you in your life, Business will help you to earn money and use your skills and also to help others, A good career will give you respect and will fulfil needs and demands of you and your family.
When you find a strong purpose for the thing that you are doing then you will be automatically focused on your goals and will also be highly motivated to achieve your goal and whenever you feel distracted that purpose will help you to focus again.
Like sometimes we say to someone that why are we doing this and what will we get by doing that particular thing.
In education sometimes many children think that where in our life we will use these principles and if we don't know that you start feeling bored because you are doing something without knowing why you are doing that particular thing.
When we know clearly the reason for doing something we are very much focused and motivated to do that particular thing because we start to know about the results that we will get by doing that.
On the other hand, we feel bored and lack of focus when we don't know why we are doing that particular thing. Just keep reminding your purpose to yourself whenever you feel distracted.
You need to be realistic with yourself. After knowing about your purpose you need to know about the importance of your purpose by thinking about what will happen if you didn't achieve your goal.
Thinking what will happen if you didn't achieve your goal doesn't mean that you have to only succeed and if you fail then you are not good enough but it means that are you giving your honest efforts towards your goal.
Failing by trying your best is the best learning but failing without giving honest efforts or without even trying is the worst thing that a person regrets later in his life.
You should try to know what will happen in your life if you didn't achieve your goal and what you want so that you don't take your goal lightly. Thinking this way will make you more focused and motivated towards your goal in your life.
Failure and success are not under our control but giving your honest efforts towards something in your life will help you to achieve your goal and even if you fail you will feel satisfied and happy with your efforts.
It may be not focusing on learning and your self-growth but spending your lots of valuable time in doing something that is useless like spending a lot of time on your smartphone and not focusing on your health and career.
You should understand that no matter what you need to do something in your life and you will also need to take your responsibility towards yourself and your family in the future. There is no way you can deny that or hide from that.
You will need to do a job or business or work towards your passion that you have to get what you want and to earn money. And to achieve all these things you have to work towards achieving these goals.
When you understand that you have to do something in your life then you will automatically be focused and motivated towards your goals because you will know the truth that “you will get nothing if you do nothing".
We can change ourselves completely in a positive way if we change the way our mind thinks and if we control our mind. We need to be realistic towards a particular thing that we want to achieve in our life and we will be unstoppable.
We need a reason to do something before doing that particular thing and if we are honest with ourselves that no one can stop us.
We are a person who takes ourselves higher by learning and making ourselves better and it is we who are the reason for not achieving anything in our life by underestimating ourselves and not giving our honest efforts.
So, be honest with yourself and never ever underestimate yourself in life and live the only life you have got in the best possible way and spread happiness in this beautiful world. Thank you. You can comment and share if you find it helpful.
But the problem is that we all want to do something in our life but we are not able to keep our focus and the same motivation towards our goal after some time but it's very important to do something in our life to live a happy life.
So, how we can keep our focus and motivation towards the goal that we want to achieve? The best and reality-based(not theoretical but practical) way to be focused on our goal in life is:
1) Do what you want and likes
That's the most simple, real and best way to be focused towards your goal all the time. A person doesn't need any motivation to be focused on something that he/she loves to do. You should try to do something that you loves in your life and should try to be a part of a career related to that particular thing.
When you do what you want then you will enjoy doing that particular thing without giving any extra effort. But you should be realistic with yourself and not make any decisions only on the basis of dreams.
If there is a career related to what you love then you should do that and if your passion doesn't give you a profitable career than you should try to enjoy what you do and the best way to do that is to learn about your work.
Try to become as good as you can with the work you do and after sometime when you will have full knowledge about what you do you will definitely start enjoying that particular work and will be more focused in your life.
2) Connect your goal with purpose
What is the reason for you to do what you are doing in your life? Why you have to achieve a particular goal? What you will get and where you will go in your life after achieving that particular goal? Ask these questions to you regularly and whenever you feel like you are going away from your goal.Everyone in this world is doing something in their life because it is related to a purpose. For example- A person is doing a job to earn money and fulfil his family needs and without a job he can't, A person is doing social services to help the society.
You want to become successful because someone insulted you or you have suffered in your life and wants to make life better. You need one good purpose and the burning desire to do something in your life.
You should have a desire and purpose for which you can do everything in your life and should keep remembering it to yourself that you have to go there in your life.
A person without a purpose and desire can't do anything in his/her life. For example- If someone says you have to work for him for free then will you do that particular thing? No, will be the answer because you don't know why you have to do that work and what you will get by doing that particular thing and that's why there will be no focus and motivation for you to do that work.
You should try to find a strong purpose for what you are doing. For example- Education will help you to learn something new and important and will help you in your life, Business will help you to earn money and use your skills and also to help others, A good career will give you respect and will fulfil needs and demands of you and your family.
When you find a strong purpose for the thing that you are doing then you will be automatically focused on your goals and will also be highly motivated to achieve your goal and whenever you feel distracted that purpose will help you to focus again.
Like sometimes we say to someone that why are we doing this and what will we get by doing that particular thing.
In education sometimes many children think that where in our life we will use these principles and if we don't know that you start feeling bored because you are doing something without knowing why you are doing that particular thing.
When we know clearly the reason for doing something we are very much focused and motivated to do that particular thing because we start to know about the results that we will get by doing that.
On the other hand, we feel bored and lack of focus when we don't know why we are doing that particular thing. Just keep reminding your purpose to yourself whenever you feel distracted.
3) Think about the outcome if you didn't achieve what you wanted.
Every action of a human being is related to the way they train their brain. A person who has control over his mind can control almost everything in his life.You need to be realistic with yourself. After knowing about your purpose you need to know about the importance of your purpose by thinking about what will happen if you didn't achieve your goal.
Thinking what will happen if you didn't achieve your goal doesn't mean that you have to only succeed and if you fail then you are not good enough but it means that are you giving your honest efforts towards your goal.
Failing by trying your best is the best learning but failing without giving honest efforts or without even trying is the worst thing that a person regrets later in his life.
You should try to know what will happen in your life if you didn't achieve your goal and what you want so that you don't take your goal lightly. Thinking this way will make you more focused and motivated towards your goal in your life.
Failure and success are not under our control but giving your honest efforts towards something in your life will help you to achieve your goal and even if you fail you will feel satisfied and happy with your efforts.
4) Understand the reality of life
There are many persons(especially youth) who are not focusing on the things that will help them grow and are important for their future by postponing them and are focusing on the things that are not useful in their life.It may be not focusing on learning and your self-growth but spending your lots of valuable time in doing something that is useless like spending a lot of time on your smartphone and not focusing on your health and career.
You should understand that no matter what you need to do something in your life and you will also need to take your responsibility towards yourself and your family in the future. There is no way you can deny that or hide from that.
You will need to do a job or business or work towards your passion that you have to get what you want and to earn money. And to achieve all these things you have to work towards achieving these goals.
When you understand that you have to do something in your life then you will automatically be focused and motivated towards your goals because you will know the truth that “you will get nothing if you do nothing".
Conclusion:
These all are very realistic and practical based ways to stay focused on your goals in life and to be motivated all the time. Everything in our life depends on the way we think and train our mind.We can change ourselves completely in a positive way if we change the way our mind thinks and if we control our mind. We need to be realistic towards a particular thing that we want to achieve in our life and we will be unstoppable.
We need a reason to do something before doing that particular thing and if we are honest with ourselves that no one can stop us.
We are a person who takes ourselves higher by learning and making ourselves better and it is we who are the reason for not achieving anything in our life by underestimating ourselves and not giving our honest efforts.
So, be honest with yourself and never ever underestimate yourself in life and live the only life you have got in the best possible way and spread happiness in this beautiful world. Thank you. You can comment and share if you find it helpful.
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