Mistakes most of us regret later in our life?

Hello everyone. We all have got only one life and everyone makes a lot of mistakes in this life and learn from that and that's what makes our life much more interesting and enjoyable.

 But there are some mistakes that stop us from living the life we want and after some time we regret these mistakes in our life but at that time we can't do anything.

 Later in our life, we realise that we could have lived a better life and could have achieved what we wanted in our life but due to our mistakes and wrong thinking, we couldn't do that.

Sometimes it gets too late to correct these and that's why we should try to live our lives in the fullest and happiest way by not doing these mistakes because we have one life to live and we should live it in the best way.

1) Thinking you are not good enough/ others are better

The biggest mistake that you can do in your life is to underestimate yourself.  It's an illusion and nothing else because there is nothing like that and it still makes you feel like that. As you all know that a person with a strong self believes has the capability to achieve the unimaginable.

A life without enough self-belief is not a life. You cant enjoy your life and do what you want if you doubt yourself. As you start to grow older and experience you will realise you were very much capable and could have achieved what you wanted.

This happens with the majority of people. In life, you are never bad or lesser capable than others but the only difference is the way you think and believe. Every successful person has one thing in common and that is the confidence and the belief they have.

Because of that confidence, they do what others are not even thinking. Everyone is the same with different qualities. If you ever underestimate yourself than ask one more question- why? Find the reason and then correct it and yes, that's that easy.

If you don't know a skill then learn that. Whatever thing you think you lack just learn it instead of criticising you and making your life hell.

You should believe in you that you can do anything and can get through any problem in life and you will automatically start getting the solution of every problem because you have the belief and you have started thinking about the solution.

Just respect yourself enough once and think about how you can achieve something instead of blaming or criticising yourself, you will love your life and will achieve anything you wants with fun. Don't try to be perfect because everyone makes mistakes and mistakes makes a person better.

Please don't doubt yourself because it will make your one life which you have every right to enjoy into a hell. Be happy and be the reason for others happiness. Everyone you love and are a fan of is like you but they focus on hard work instead of self-doubting.

Most of us ended the journey or step to achieve something even before starting it and you should not be among those. Enjoy challenges of your life and you will be unstoppable.

2) Wasting your time

You would have heard that from many that if only I could have some more time or if I could have utilised my time better I would have been in better condition. Many people regret not using there time well and they can't do anything about that at that time.

You should use your time in the best possible way to not regret the same in your future. You should not sit idol at any time or waste your time because it will only give negativity to you and your mind in your life.

You should enjoy every moment of your life and use your time to make yourself better. Learn something you think you should know. Have a goal and work towards your goal and should also give yourself time to do what you love.

Time managing doesn't mean that you should not enjoy your life but it means taking the best out of your time by learning and enjoying at the same time. Don't waste all your time in very useless things.

Just work hard at the right time and you will live a good life after that. After your young age when you start to get older, the willpower of you to achieve something also starts to decrease. That's why it is advised to utilise your time when you are young.

Utilising your time will keep you in a positive space and will keep you away from any negativity. The people who waste their all-time are full of unhappiness and regret after some time because you can't enjoy your life without learning and upgrading yourself.

And to be honest a person who is not utilising his time tries to enjoy his life by doing many things but in reality, he doesn't enjoy his life. Deep inside everyone knows what they are doing wrong.

 For example- When we use our smartphone after some time we don't enjoy using our smartphone that much as in the starting but even after that we keep scrolling to find something interesting. That is the real waste of time and will increase stress in you but if you utilise your that time than you will remain positive and will not regret it in future also.

3) Being affected by others/ Giving too much importance to others

There are many people in this world who have changed their decisions on the basis of what others will say. Like, when you try to do something different than if you are thinking about what others will say if I fail or changing the way you wants to live on the basis of others.

See, it's great to follow good things of others but to change your decisions on the basis of others will always make you feel restricted or not free in your life. There are many people in this world who have made a small mistake and then they feel guilty to face others.

After some time you will realise that the people on the basis of whom you changed your decisions were just giving their advice on the basis of their thinking and you took then so seriously that you stopped yourself.

There will be no one to help you all throughout your life and it's your responsibility to take care of yourself. Always welcome good advice by others but the final decision should be yours so that you don't regret the decision you have taken or should have taken.

4) Not taking a step/ Fear of doing something/ Overthinking about something

It is related to self-belief and learning. Many times we give too much importance to something or exaggerate something so much that it insists fear in us. For example- Many times we fear to apply for a very big job or taking a big decision.

But in reality, there is nothing that you should be fearful of because fear will always stop you from doing or achieving something. For example- When you apply for a job than there are two possibilities- you will be selected or not.

If you are not selected you can improve yourself and achieve that thing in future but there is no chance of success if you didn't try or are underestimating yourself. Keep learning and growing in your life and keep all the negativity away.

Fear is nothing but an illusion which says you can't but if you look at the reality than you can overcome it. Don't think like this is a very high-quality job or something like that. You should think that I am also capable enough and if not then I will learn and you will succeed in your life and will also be proud of yourself.

Just do what you want, you will succeed or learn and you can definitely try again and if you can't try again in some cases than there are many other better options available and you just need to see these.

5) Health

It takes just about 10-20 minutes of exercise your day daily and eating healthy food to remain fit. Health is the most important thing in the life of a human and that's why you should take care of health.

However successful you are it doesn't matter if you are not healthy and you can't enjoy your success with bad health. Success and health should be taken care of together in life and you can't overlook anyone out of them.

Poor health will take all the joy out of your life and its better to have something less with good health than having everything but not health. Give priority to your health and also the environment which is the biggest factor for being healthy. Environment care is also our responsibility.

It's better to take care of your health instead of saying that I would have done better if I was healthy.

6) Not enjoying your life/ excessive stress/ not exploring something new

Sometimes in our life, we get some chances to explore something new or do something different but we didn't take those chances and opportunities and we regret that in future.

Whenever in life you get a chance to do something new and different which you have never done before then you should try to take that opportunity because new experiences help you and your mind to grow and as well as makes your life enjoyable.

New experiences will teach new things. Nothing will happen in life by taking stress all the time, you need a solution to every problem in life. You should treat every challenge in life as a game and enjoy every moment of your life by treating yourself as a warrior.

Enjoy, learn and explore new things in life so that you don't need to regret later in your life.

Conclusion:

Fear, perfection and every such thing that have a negative impact on you are just like an illusion which is created in our mind and that stops us from achieving our goal and enjoying our life.

Life is about handling the negativity and trying to be positive space in our mind and having self-belief in yourself to face and control every situation. A person with strong character will definitely find a way to achieve what he/she wants.

There is nothing that can stop you but the only thing that can stop you is your imaginary obstacles which in reality aren't there.

For example- you need to buy something and you need money for that but you don't have money than what is the solution? The solution is to earn money. It doesn't mean you can't buy that particular thing but it is that you require money.

The same thing applies in life, you are not bad or weak or incapable but you need to learn a particular skill to do a particular work and if you can learn that skill than you can definitely do that work. There is nothing like, that you are not good enough or what others will say applies in life.

The life principle is simple if you want something works for it and if you fail you will learn and can try again and again. All the negativities are just created by us and it's you who can break it.

Just live your one life in the best possible way so that you don't have any regret in the future because everything that is looking very hard will look very easy in the future and Anthony of us blame ourselves.

Just enjoy your life and spread love in this beautiful world and help those who require choir because humanity is the most pleasing experience in our life. Live freely and happily and remember there is no barrier and if there is any you have the capability to overcome that.

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